Miss In-DEPENDENT

She got her own house
She got her own car
Two jobs work hard
She a bad broad.

Why are we as women so quick to knock a man down for his inadequacies, when at the end of the day we are no good ourselves? Yes, this article will discuss the growing phenomenon that is “No Good Women.” This one is for the fellas.

How many times have you heard your girlfriends talk about how they wouldn’t even give a guy their number, if he didn’t meet the following qualifications: a good job (that requires a college degree), a car (that actually runs, with his name on the title), his own place (a basement apartment in his mama’s house with a private entrance does not qualify), etc. Well, the sad thing is, most of these women don’t even fit their own qualifications. It seems as if these women want a guy that can transform them into Miss Independent, because truth be told, they are dependent.

You know the chicks that claim to be Miss Independent, but stay calling their parents every other week to help them pay their bills. They don’t have a car or if they do they can’t drive it, because they don’t have the money to get it fixed. Or what about the ladies that stay shopping or going on needless online shopping sprees, but when it’s time to do anything worth something, they’re paralyzed broke. And whenever you ask them why they don’t have a job they want to claim they are focusing on school (but its summer boo-boo schools out, on to the next one). The chicks that are more obsessed with updating their lace front collection, than their resume.

It’s not just the monetary aspect that makes these women no good. No one wants a woman who curses like a sailor, club hops every week, is painted in tattoos, and dresses like she is the lead in a groupies 101 movie. What would make this type of woman attractive to anyone?

I’m just saying ladies, before you go judging men, maybe you should take a look in the mirror. A woman more obsessed with social networking sites, than building her own brand is not worth bringing home to mom’s. So ladies, stop focusing on what a man has or doesn’t have and solidify your independence. While it may be true that a good man is hard to fine, please believe me a good woman is not. (I have the BEAUTIFUL ladies of TWW to prove it)

So, like the song says…If you ain’t on, SIT DOWN.

Keep it real family.

Posted by: Southern Comfort