“A beautiful woman with a great head on her shoulders shouldn’t settle, but should also be smart enough to know a good man when she sees one. . . . There are some very good men out there that will be the man you want him to be if you give him a chance.”Above was a comment I came across while reading a post from one of my favorite blogs. The comment was in response to a post about attractive women with ugly girl syndrome (attractive women who stay with dudes that treat them badly because they don’t want to be lonely). Can I just say that I’m so sick of men saying this shit to counter women’s argument that men are assholes. My observation: the only reason any man is a “very good man” is because he is a very ugly man. If he wasn’t very ugly he wouldn’t be very good. Shit, even some of the very ugly men have developed the asshole syndrome that runs rampant amongst that other sex.
I know a couple, girl is cute, guy not so much, yet every time the girl turns her back the guy goes astray. All the while I’m thinking, what the hell is wrong with him? He’s lucky he even bagged her, now he’s trying to score a side piece too??? I know that you all know that couple too.
Anyway, all of this is to say, if I were to give that very good man a chance I’d be doing exactly what I know I shouldn’t . . . settling. Why should my options be limited to an asshole or some guy I’m not attracted to who kind of makes my skin crawl when he touches me.
Men, act appropriately, don’t be an asshole and there will be no need for me to be lonely or settle.
OK vent over. Anyhow, what do you think, are men only very good when they are very ugly?
Posted by Bourgeois
I agree that women shouldn't settle for the ugly guy because he treats her better than the cute guy. There are cute guys out there who do treat their lady right. You just have to kiss a lot of frogs to get to your prince. The problen is that there is about 10,000 frogs to 1 prince.
ReplyDeleteI am a bit less optimistic about the prince..but im all about kissing the frogs..lol let me stop..but no i really i think its not called settling if a person really cares for you and treats you amazingly..from personal experience after giving a man i didn't find all that attractive a chance..the attraction grew out of how amazing he made me feel.
ReplyDeleteWhat about ugly girls with very attractive males???
ReplyDeleteDon't answer, I'll tell you why........good in the bedroom