In recent conversations with my girlfriends, I have come to the consensus that some women feel the need that they must have man even if that guy ranks high on the loser totem pole. Understandably, having a man and being in a fulfilling relationship is a great thing but to what extent do we achieve this?
In my opinion a man should in no form or fashion define who we are as women. To add insult to injury society puts a lot of emphasis on women who are either married, engaged or in a relationship! To be single is almost taboo! When we are without a a man... do we become less that or amount to nothing! A resounding no! We are beautiful, smart,caring and exquisite beings! We don't want to settle and fall for the first loser just to appease that need to be with someone. Men should add to us and be an asset instead of a liability. Lets find out our true worth so we can be the best and have the best cause that's what we truly deserve.Here are some key symptoms of "he defines me syndrome"
1. When you change plans quick and when he wants to see you.
2. We sit and control our schedule around theirs.
3. When they in a bad mood..we are in one too and everyone around us feel the effects
4. Loss of independence...we start living their lives.
5. We subject and compromised ourselves to be their light switch and yo yo..
6. We look at our phones every two seconds to hope we have a text....
Do you have " he defines me syndrome"?
Guest Blogger Fridays
Nooo, thats a "Im really into him syndrome"
ReplyDeleteYou must be single, LOL